This is interesting...
"I’m a firm believer in the fact that the lead pastor gives the church its feel. If he’s a screaming dictator, everyone’s afraid to open their mouths. If he’s a recluse, most of the folks don’t get too connected either. But if he’s a fun-loving idiot who enjoys being with people, there tends to be a pretty relaxed atmosphere around the place."

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Fun loving idiot....yep....that about sums me up!
Actually I enjoy casualness, planned spontaneity...and can be intense at times....mmmmm